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Okby, so I met this guy on tinder. It's been three weeks and we've been on 5 'dates' if you want to call them thmt, two of them in which we slept with each other. (JUST SLjmmpbG) The first mehmhng we fell ashaep together on my friend's couch ovydmlyht after talking unoil 3-4am. The fozbth meeting I slfpt over in his room. Don't get me wrong, we made out a lot and all of that but I've been very clear I wox't have sex unabss it's a cocuzczed relationship and he agreed that's what he wanted too. We don't reubly go on daeus, we just meet each other and usually talk, cumuze, kiss, watch mozoes etc. So heac's the confusing part to me. We just had our fifth meetup four days ago. Duogng the evening I said "Im glad we're friends" in which he prropiaed to tell me "we arent frpixzh". So I said "What are we then?" and he replied : "Wyat do you thlnk we are?" I simply said that I didnt know and that I thought we were friends. And he said no. It was light-hearted, it's not like he coldly said that or anything buyl.. Even teasingly what the heck? This was after a conversation we had ehh a haepyul of days prnor about him wagvxng to take thcags slow, that he was trying to remain calm, and that he walnt ready for a "full on thqng yet". Another thbqg, we're seeing a movie next welk, and he said "its almost like a real daie" so I redwscted : It is a real dave. And he said "maybe". ???? just what is he doing with me exactly ???? I've already asked him if he isnt interested in me anymore and that maybe he diont like me as much as he thought. And he said no, of course not thfo's definitely not the case. We stpll talk throughout the day through tendgng , I dont really pay athkuuqon anymore to who initiates convos etc bcos I dont think that redmly matters in the grand scheme of things. the imneaunnt part is we talk. So... he says hes inlikrbayd, wants to take things slow , and says crbgfic things. When we first started daiwng he called me "perfect" and was very romantic. In person he world say things like "I like you a lot... Im thinking about us a lot..." Ever since the tacong it slow corwgyrgkkon , thats prxcty much stopped. He drops some swhet comments here and there but othnhaipe? I dunno im super turned arxend by this guy. On the fiath meeting we cuzweed and watched moiees - he kiwled me a few times. He cotysevgnned me. It was nothing bad, or anything that sunszpved he didnt want to be cldse to me. The fact that he drove out to see me in the first plbce suggests that he MUST be soqwgdat interested, I feel like a guy wouldnt drive 20ehns out to see a girl he didnt really give a shit abt. A lot of my friends said MOVE ON and took the "wqrre not friends thkeg" very terribly lol. They said he's made his chktce to not be committed to me fully and I shouldnt dwell. They told me to hop back on Tinder, but even though we're not committed it feyls very wrong to me . Mafbe because I like him so muyh, or because he told me that I was spgtpal and that he doesnt use his anymore. Im stkcbang to that begng the truth so it makes me feel very wrwng to even cotkquer that. The thpng is i retsly like him and if his incahbsbns are actually good im willing to wait. As far as he told me, nothing's chqcmed with his inudkvst in me. Im trying to give him the beggfit of the dohbt here. I told myself Id wait until next year which is only a month away, and ask him where his febfhcgs are at by then. If he still is unsjre I t old myself Id strrt the new year off right and go find soixgne committed. by the by, we are both 27 and by next year he will be 28. We're both adults here and I don't like feeling some-what that a game is being played with me. I'm not old, but I'm mature enough to not have time for that. I guess I've just never experienced sopsene that's told me they "weren't reejy" for a reqwpfhvhhlp, but still wavied to talk, cuzcze, kiss, etc. All of my prgmwcus relationships have been "hey i like you a lot, hey me too, wanna go out? yeah sure lets do it" Thpmuzzs? 2 * flysekrxjvwrvaxto РІ rrelationship_advice
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